Seeing your empty chair ,me turning around but not finding you
sipping coffee in your lungi or not seeing you listen to songs and sermons on
youtube, you not reading your Physics books..this all seems very unreal to me!
I cannot accept this reality where you are no more, Where
i can’t see you or hear you or talk to you or hug
you everyday. Its almost a month since I have heard you call
me Blessy!
Turning
31 today, without you,your physical presence,without you placing your hand on
my head and praying @12 midnight,like every year ...... And thinking that it's
going to be like this from now on is breaking me! The sorrow, the pain, the
distress it must have caused you’ll, as my Dad and my Mom,is completely
unimaginable!! What Betsy too had to go through! But everything was fine,it was
all acceptable to me! But then exactly after 10months, when you
were suddenly diagnosed with cancer,I felt my heart ripped off !! I could not
accept that.Because I honestly thought every family had to go through
something big and we were done! My brain tumor was that '"something big"
that we as a family had been through, twice!! I was still sitting with pillow-walls
around me ,trying hard not to fall but just balance myself when I
would see you and Mom go for your weekly appointments and injections and
treatments.The helplessness,I ,as a 24yr old, would feel, not being there for
them when I can't even get up from my bed on my own! The Devil was playing with
my thoughts and would eventually entangle me into depression,so i buried
myself in the Bible,reading and studying the scriptures, writing my
understandings! It was my escape!! And so,when your medical reports came out to
be all negative,i knew from my personal experiences, that absolutely nothing is
impossible for God! I knew we live by faith and not by sight! I knew not to
believe in worldly reports but to trust him! And I did!!... But still you
went into a deep sleep, you had to go, God called you back!I And I know wholeheartedly where you
are right now! I Know that you are with your Maker…that makes me smile!
And I know one day I'll meet you again but its just that I don't
know when that day will come! Till that time I will not have my Appa around!! Everything that I did ,as a kid
and as an adult, my every small achievement, especially in the last 7yrs,after
surgery,involved you in it! Be it my engineering exams where you
came along for me and waited patiently for 3 hrs in the adjacent rooms ,inspite
of your health!!Or my internship, my weekly physiotherapy,or my daily walks
with you in the park!! You transitioned from my ever-present, protective Dad
into my best friend! I know I am not
the first person to lose a parent! And I know that me dealing with a brain
tumor and you dealing with cancer, together at the same time is also not the
first case in history but then you suddenly stopped dealing with everything!
And on the 24th of March, as we were watching you, you slowly
stopped breathing ... , now leaving me as a brain tumor survivor still but
making you ‘a was’…. ‘he was a cancer-survivor’!
I just know… God is in control!!
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As I was reading the passage from 1 peter 5: 5- 11(NKJV), which is about Submitting To God And Resisting The devil , the latter half of verse 10 said “……after you have suffered for a while; perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you.’ I got stuck on the phrase ‘suffered fo r a while’. Lately my mind has been wrestling with that word ‘while.' I know of God’s goodness. I have tasted and experienced it personally, I know of God’s Sovereignty. I know that nothing is impossible with God. There is not an iota of doubt in my mind about his capability to perform miracles or HIS grace or HIS mercy or HIS perfect ways or HIS perfect time. BUT it’s been 13 years since my last brain-surgery, since I have walked around witho...
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We haven't known each other much. But as I was reading your testimony, I could learn one thing "God gives the toughest battles to HIS strongest soldiers. Stay strong in the Lord. Prayers assured!
I feel nostalgic after reading your testimony. I remember back in bhayander every Sunday after worship we all use to meet and had a great fellowship.. you kids were an important part of it. We really missed Babu Sir but surely we can meet him in eternity
Thank you!